| 1. |
Understand the coach and
team philosophy. If you don't know the goals of the team (for
example, player development versus competition), ask them to be
spelled out at the meeting. |
| 2. |
Send your children ready to
play. They should be properly fed and clothed, and they should
arrive on time. |
| 3. |
Support the team, but do
not instruct the players. It confuses your child and others, and
undermines the efforts of the coach. |
| 4. |
Avoid confusion when
cheering. Do not say anything that is a command, such as "Pass
it," "Shoot," or "Boot the ball." |
| 5. |
Use positive encouragement
instead. This would include such comments as "Way to go,"
"Nice effort," or "Stay with it." |
| 6. |
Refrain from speaking to
officials, unless it is to say thank you after the game. If you have
questions or concerns with the referees, relay the information at
the proper time (see rule 7) to the coach. |
| 7. |
Speak to the coach at the
proper time. If you have concerns, use the telephone. If it is about
a game, let the dust settle for a couple of days first. |
| 8. |
Report to the coach all
injuries, special medical conditions (such as asthma) or extenuating
circumstances (such as lack of sleep or family crisis) that may
affect the player. |
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